Welcome to my Contact Page

Hi, I’m Barbara (Blaze) Lazarony, MA, LMFT—a licensed therapist, certified coach, and fellow neurodivergent human walking this path called love and life with you.

Whether you’re seeking clarity around your diagnosis, longing for deeper connection in your relationship, or searching for affirming support that honors your wiring, you’re in the right place.

This is a space for emotional safety, real talk, and healing that lasts.

My Mission

To help you feel safe in your truth.

I work with sensitive, intuitive, and neurodivergent adults and couples who are tired of masking, over-functioning, or feeling unseen. Whether you’re navigating Autism, ADHD, AuDHD, trauma, or relationship disconnect, you deserve support that sees all of who you are.

Together, we’ll create pathways to:

• Self-understanding

• Authentic connection

• Sustainable healing

This is support that affirms your identity, not pathologizes it.

My Lens

I bring both professional expertise and lived experience as a neurodivergent therapist and coach.

• Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist (#151788)

• Registered Associate Professional Clinical Counselor (#10253), Supervised by Dr. Harry Motro, LMFT #53452

• Advanced Certified Integral Coach

• Advanced Certified Trauma Specialist
• Certified Assessment Specialist

• 40+ years in a neurodivergent relationship

• Three-time cancer survivor

• Affiliate therapist with leading neurodiverse centers, including:

  • Neurodiverse Couples Counseling Center

  • Neurodiverse Intensives and Retreats

  • Adult Autism & ADHD Assessment Center

I’ve walked the messy, beautiful road of healing myself. My work blends:

• Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)

• Internal Family Systems (IFS)

• Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)

• Brainspotting

• Sand Play Therapy

• Somatic and sensory-aware tools

• Human Design and heart-centered coaching

You don’t have to fix who you are.
You just need someone who gets it—and knows how to help you reconnect with your rhythm, needs, and voice.

Safe Space. Real Talk.

This is an affirming space for all identities—across race, gender, neurotype, ability, faith, and lived experience.
No masking. No judgment. Just real talk and fiercely compassionate, rooted support.

Who I Work With

I specialize in supporting:

• Neurodivergent adults (diagnosed or self-identified)

• Partners of autistic, ADHD, or trauma-affected individuals

• Couples where one or both partners are neurodivergent

• Late-diagnosed or high-masking individuals

• Sensitive, intuitive professionals navigating burnout or life transitions

Ready to Begin?

If any of this resonates, I invite you to schedule a FREE “Clarity & Connection” Zoom—my gentle, no-pressure initial consultation.

Here’s how it works:

Click the orange button below      Answer 10 quick questions    Choose a time that works for you

That’s it–thoughtful, kind, and easy to begin.

You don’t have to navigate this alone.
Let’s start your next chapter with presence, clarity, and care.

Most Sessions Conducted on Zoom, Office Directions

From San Francisco:

• Get on US-101 S
• Continue on US-101 S. Take I-280 S, CA-85 S, US-101 S, and CA-1 S to Del Monte Ave in Monterey. Take exit 402B from CA-1
• Continue on Del Monte Ave. Take Lighthouse Ave and Central Ave to Ridge Rd in Pacific Grove, CA

From Los Angeles:

• Get on US-101 N
• Drive from I-5 N to Kern County. Take exit 278 from I-5 N
• Get on CA-1 S/CA-68 W in Monterey from CA-46 W and US-101 N
• Follow CA-1 S/CA-68 W. Take exit 399A from CA-1 S/CA-68 W
• Take CA-68 W and Sunset Dr to Ridge Rd in Pacific Grove, CA