Autism, ADHD, and C-Trauma in Relationships Blog
A Guide: Neurotypical vs Neurodivergent Communication
In a world where diversity is celebrated, it's vital to recognize that our brains, too, contribute to the rich tapestry that makes us unique. Neurodiversity – the concept that neurological variations are a natural and valuable form of human diversity – has gained...
Unlocking Alexithymia: A Silence of Emotional Expression
Imagine the world of emotions as a vibrant, colorful landscape, where each hue represents a different feeling. Now, picture a person navigating this landscape, unable to discern the colors and struggling to communicate their inner experiences at a speed that feels...
Read About Autism in Relationships and More
Hi, I’m Barbara (Blaze) Lazarony, LMFT, the founder of Love on the Autism Spectrum and the voice behind the Autism in Relationships blog. I’m a neurodivergent therapist and coach with a Master’s in Clinical Psychology from Sofia University and advanced training in Autism, ADHD, AuDHD, and Complex Trauma.
I specialize in working with couples who’ve seen too many traditional therapists and still feel stuck. With over 22 years of clinical and coaching experience—and more than 40 years in a neurodivergent relationship myself—I help partners bridge communication gaps, rebuild emotional safety, and connect in ways that actually work.
Through therapy, coaching, adult Autism and ADHD assessments, couples intensives, retreats, and community spaces, I support clients in creating relationships that feel emotionally safe, fulfilling, and real.
My work is trauma-informed, neurodiversity-affirming, and grounded in deep respect for each person’s nervous system, lived experience, and truth. I understand the heartbreak of feeling misunderstood—and the healing that happens when both people feel truly seen.
Love and Autism, ADHD, and complex trauma can coexist beautifully.
Let me help you write a love story that finally feels like home.